Monday, 3 December 2018

LET YOUR WILL BE DONE... (part 1)

It has been a while since I last wrote. So much has happened that I myself can't even comprehend. So, let's start where we left off writing. Shall we?

On the 7th of June 2018, my blog celebrated 3 years since I started sharing my journey and opening this platform to others to share their journey with as well. Here is something I wrote down in celebration of this;

Wow, I can’t believe today marks 3 years since the decision to pour my heart and experiences out on this blog. It has been a journey and a half for me this year, hence I haven’t written in a while but I assure you when the time comes for me to write. You will understand why the wait. Through what I have gone through, I have not forgotten about you. I just couldn’t think of what experiences to share with you as I was going and still going through. 


With this being the blog’s birthday, I would like to firstly take this moment to give thanks to The Almighty Living Father for that which He has trusted upon me and giving me the strength and vision to carry it out. He has done far greater things for me than what I could ever ask for. To Him and Him alone; be glory now and forever.


To my family, I love and appreciate your love and support throughout my journey in this. You have been a pillar of strength, wisdom. love and guidance through it all. I thank The Father for each and every one of you starting with my day one – My Mother J. You are more than what I could ask for in a Mother and I thank God for seeing it fit to trust you with my life as you have done and continue to do a remarkable work. 


To each and every single one of you that takes time to read, comment, share, like and take part of this blog. I appreciate you soo much as you keep me going, knowing that someone out there is rooting for me to win. I might not know all of you by name but please know that I appreciate you soo much. Keep inspiring and praying for me.

I couldn't post it then as I felt the timing wasn't right (crazy hey?). As some of you know, I don't write for the sake of writing. I write because I want to inspire others and celebrating the blog's birthday didn't seem like an inspiration at that time but looking at it now. This blog is a blessing to me and hopefully to many others.


So just a teaser of what is to come on the blog, starting where I left off which is the 4th of January 2017 (yikes). I can't explain how excited I am to write and share my experiences with you again. Stay tuned on this blog and my social pages for the next time I post. It's going to be soo amazing *kisses*

MAKING IT THROUGH THE RECESSION...



As you might know, according to StatsSA, South Africa is currently going through recession.
As revealed by StatsSA, the economy shrunk by a further 0.7% – this marks two consecutive periods of contraction, which therefore equates to a recession   (https://www.thesouthafrican.com/south-africa-recession-gdp-decrease-q2-2018/).

Many companies are tightening up their financial belts. People are being retrenched, salaries and benefits reduced, the price of petrol has gone up a few times, markets aren’t doing so well, our economy is currently not at a good place. The stress of debt collection is high as most people who had become “comfortable” living in debt (as they could manage the payment before), are now faced with credit collection.

In the state that the country is in right now, it is very easy for many of us to lose hope and be depressed. It is easy to overlook the positive and focus on the negative. The stress of survival might be high which might cause people to react “extreme” according to their situations in order for them and their loved ones to survive.



During this time of securing work and meeting monthly payments, my Mother said this to me “look at yourself, you have so much wisdom and are educated. You have the means within yourself to turn your situation around for the better.” As much as I agree with her, I couldn’t see that which she saw in me as I was desperate to “survive” the recession having experienced less loss. I was once “comfortable” in debt as I managed to meet monthly payments. I had saved and invested much but wasn’t ready for such a wave of recession as that we are currently facing. What she said forced me to sit down and re-look that which I was faced with from a different perspective.

It reminded me of the story of when David faced Goliath. He didn’t look at how huge Goliath was, he simply looked at that which he had in his hand and The LORD he served. The man after GOD’s heart had faith and trusted in The LORD. He wasn’t swayed left nor right by the giant but faced him in battle (1 Samuel 17:23-54). Much like David, some of us are now faced with a Goliath and the unfolding story is being captured. Many times when I heard the story of David and Goliath, I wondered how I would react when faced with such a giant. I wondered if I would be like David or Saul. Well, the story is unfolding and it is time to simply look at that which I have, to use it and trust in The LORD that I serve.



I have come across some few things to help me not only make it through this recession, but to come out on top successful and prosperous. Here’s a few I’d like to share with you;

  • Realize that you are gifted and that your gift isn’t conditional based on your circumstances.

 As human beings, we are created in the image of The MOST HIGH GOD, we have the capacity to change our situations. We have the ability to shape and change our circumstances, and not the other way around. You need only to look deep within, recognize that which you have in your hand, make up your mind to use it and go with it.

Some people have the gift to make other people laugh. You might not need a big stage (as yet) to start. Connect yourself with local churches, schools, companies for a “one man show” or partner with people who are like minded. You might be gifted as a mine worker, connect yourself with schools and share your wisdom with children about the mines. You might be gifted in administration, use your gift to assist small and upcoming business, companies, churches, schools etc.

There are so many opportunities that require your gift. Opportunities to do good and make income aren’t only available in the workplace, they are available everywhere you are willing to open your eyes and see them. They are ready and waiting for you to utilize them. Sometimes the opportunities come in as a way to help/assist others. It may seem below you or less than your previous pay check but it is something that is much better than doing nothing. In all things, seek wisdom first before you act.


  •  Step out of your comfort zone.

This I have found to be uneasy at times myself but once I have started on the journey, it became fulfilling. Stepping out of one’s comfort zone seems a bit daunting at first. Like u’Tata Nelson Mandela said “it always seems impossible, until it is done.” There is an African proverb that says “in order to eat the whole elephant. You must eat it, a piece at a time.” Sometimes we think of drastic things to do in order to get out of our comfort zones when really, it is sometimes the small steps we  take added with determination that helps us see success. For example, as a professional unemployed baker, you could enter that competition you have been wanting to enter. Bake for stokvel gatherings, school fun days, church festivals, start that baking company with your loved ones. 

If you focus your attention on how big the elephant is and when it is that you will finish eating it, you might not ever start enjoying the elephant. You might leave it and others will capitalize on it. Your achievements in life thus far might be colorful but that (in most cases when unemployed) doesn’t help when you are hungry. The contacts you have might not be useful and all the hard work you once did, might be forgotten by many. Applying online everyday might be a conventional way of looking for work but how about trying something you haven’t done before, like approaching companies/loved ones/NGO’s/NPO’s etc for work and to physically hand in your CV?


I remember when I was without work, I volunteered my administration skills at an NGO and a month later with them, they hired me as a full-time employee. Some people are doing unconventional ways in order to be hired by standing on robots (traffic lights) with a board and their CV’s in hand, ready to be employed. That might be drastic for you but for them, it is stepping out of their comfort zones in order to beat recession.



  • Tighten up your financial belt.

Not many people that I know like to hear this but it has saved many others from going further into debt. If big companies do it in order to secure a future for their companies, why not you? It is difficult to tighten up a financial belt especially when it has been loosened a few times. It makes your whole body uncomfortable at first but the body, eventually, learns to adapt. Instead of going out every weekend, buying lavish material things to impress others, taking up unnecessary loans (only you know which one’s those are) and in some instances, using your own vehicle when you can use public transport. 

Why not use that money to save or to invest in you or your loved one’s future? I remember when I had to park my vehicle at home and use public transport and limit places I used to travel to. It was such a difficult decision to make but it saved me R2,200 monthly as I used to spend R3,000 on petrol alone every month. Sure, ego takes a huge hit cause then you think about your reputation and what people might say, but the amount of money I saved, was worth more than my ego.



  •  Something old with something new?

I love learning new things, it is one of the things that excites an introvert. I plan on furthering my studies but I had to put that on hold due to the current state of the country. I also couldn’t let that stop me. So I decided to do something I had done when I was in school, I went to the local community library and got started on learning. I didn’t want to wait until the tide of the country’s financial market had turned in my favor. I instead grabbed the bull by the horn and made lemonade of the lemons life handed to me. I had a vision and was determined to see through no matter the state of the economy.

In that sense, why not try something old with something new and see what comes of it? Use conventional ways to come up with unconventional ways. Mark Zuckerberg did it by making use of the way we used to connect with others and made it conventional (Facebook). I have gone back home often times during the recession and I have found myself more inspired to do something new, to try again and time and again, to try it differently and that has helped me to keep going.


  • Get with the right people.

Often when times like these hit, we forget who we are and the good we are capable of. Even when people remind us, because we are so focused on the negatives and when everything will “go back to where it was like once”. I remember walking to my apartment and was accompanied by an old man who said to me that the “dompas” years were better than the times we are in now, as people had work. I thought to myself, never allow yourself to look back at where GOD removed you from. No matter the circumstances you find yourself in. It is easy to look at something so horrible as “good” because of where your attention is focused on and the people you surround yourself with.

Also at times you could find yourself with the upcoming movers and shakers and be intimidated by them. I once spoke to a loved one and suggested that when the tide turns around in the country’s favor, that I would invest financially in their company as I couldn’t recognize how else I would be able to assist. I was intimidated by them and the journey they were on as I couldn’t see how I could possibly assist with anything else but money. I was then reminded that I had so much more to offer than money. I have skills and gifts that they required more than money at that time. So I offered my strong administration gift and that has opened more doors for me and them that I could ever imagine.  

Often times we might not have anything to offer the upcoming movers and shakers at that time but I have realized that if you stick around them long enough. An opportunity will present itself and they will look to you to assist them. Sometimes you have to be consistent with showing up 😊



  •  Keep moving.

My brother once said to me: “often what you are going through, a lot of people have gone through it and some, could be currently going through it”. You are not alone and you are not the only person going through it. Many have gone through it and not only survived, but prospered through it. Many people and companies have succeeded during recession like Ford and Intel:


Ford (NYSE:F)
“Just years ago, Ford was in deep financial trouble, along with the entire American car industry. Plagued by recalls, safety issues and lagging sales, Ford was looking like it was on its way out - until CEO Alan Mulally took over. It took three years of losses, rigorous cuts in jobs and costs, but Ford is now posting a $2.7 billion net income for 2009, and recently announced 2010 second quarter profits for April through June of $2.6 billion.” The company expects to end 2011 with less debt than cash - quite a turnaround in just a few years. A complete overhaul, eliminating models from its line, cutting costs and revamping its image got Ford back into the game at a time when recovery is toughest. (Henry Ford: Industry Mogul And Industrial Innovator.)

Intel (NYSE:INTC)
"What goes down must come up" seems to be the secret to Intel's recent $2.89 billion profit, which came in much higher than expected. Intel sat tight during the recession while client companies held off on computer purchases for their employees, and is now seeing the upswing, with profits soaring to a 10-year high. Intel's secret to success is simple patience: by waiting for pent-up demand to return, it's back to making the big tech bucks.”
(Read more: 6 Companies Thriving In The Recession https://www.investopedia.com/financial-edge/0810/6-companies-thriving-in-the-recession.aspx#ixzz5UrDyTZkM
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The key is to keep moving, be consistent, be patient and you will come across the right opportunity. Do not ever give up no matter the circumstances. The tide will turn around again and it is better that it finds you ready, than having given up to only start again.



  •  The best is yet to come.

Look towards the future with a positive outlook and know, that “it is not over yet.”