Monday, 3 December 2018

LET YOUR WILL BE DONE... (part 1)

It has been a while since I last wrote. So much has happened that I myself can't even comprehend. So, let's start where we left off writing. Shall we?

On the 7th of June 2018, my blog celebrated 3 years since I started sharing my journey and opening this platform to others to share their journey with as well. Here is something I wrote down in celebration of this;

Wow, I can’t believe today marks 3 years since the decision to pour my heart and experiences out on this blog. It has been a journey and a half for me this year, hence I haven’t written in a while but I assure you when the time comes for me to write. You will understand why the wait. Through what I have gone through, I have not forgotten about you. I just couldn’t think of what experiences to share with you as I was going and still going through. 


With this being the blog’s birthday, I would like to firstly take this moment to give thanks to The Almighty Living Father for that which He has trusted upon me and giving me the strength and vision to carry it out. He has done far greater things for me than what I could ever ask for. To Him and Him alone; be glory now and forever.


To my family, I love and appreciate your love and support throughout my journey in this. You have been a pillar of strength, wisdom. love and guidance through it all. I thank The Father for each and every one of you starting with my day one – My Mother J. You are more than what I could ask for in a Mother and I thank God for seeing it fit to trust you with my life as you have done and continue to do a remarkable work. 


To each and every single one of you that takes time to read, comment, share, like and take part of this blog. I appreciate you soo much as you keep me going, knowing that someone out there is rooting for me to win. I might not know all of you by name but please know that I appreciate you soo much. Keep inspiring and praying for me.

I couldn't post it then as I felt the timing wasn't right (crazy hey?). As some of you know, I don't write for the sake of writing. I write because I want to inspire others and celebrating the blog's birthday didn't seem like an inspiration at that time but looking at it now. This blog is a blessing to me and hopefully to many others.


So just a teaser of what is to come on the blog, starting where I left off which is the 4th of January 2017 (yikes). I can't explain how excited I am to write and share my experiences with you again. Stay tuned on this blog and my social pages for the next time I post. It's going to be soo amazing *kisses*

MAKING IT THROUGH THE RECESSION...



As you might know, according to StatsSA, South Africa is currently going through recession.
As revealed by StatsSA, the economy shrunk by a further 0.7% – this marks two consecutive periods of contraction, which therefore equates to a recession   (https://www.thesouthafrican.com/south-africa-recession-gdp-decrease-q2-2018/).

Many companies are tightening up their financial belts. People are being retrenched, salaries and benefits reduced, the price of petrol has gone up a few times, markets aren’t doing so well, our economy is currently not at a good place. The stress of debt collection is high as most people who had become “comfortable” living in debt (as they could manage the payment before), are now faced with credit collection.

In the state that the country is in right now, it is very easy for many of us to lose hope and be depressed. It is easy to overlook the positive and focus on the negative. The stress of survival might be high which might cause people to react “extreme” according to their situations in order for them and their loved ones to survive.



During this time of securing work and meeting monthly payments, my Mother said this to me “look at yourself, you have so much wisdom and are educated. You have the means within yourself to turn your situation around for the better.” As much as I agree with her, I couldn’t see that which she saw in me as I was desperate to “survive” the recession having experienced less loss. I was once “comfortable” in debt as I managed to meet monthly payments. I had saved and invested much but wasn’t ready for such a wave of recession as that we are currently facing. What she said forced me to sit down and re-look that which I was faced with from a different perspective.

It reminded me of the story of when David faced Goliath. He didn’t look at how huge Goliath was, he simply looked at that which he had in his hand and The LORD he served. The man after GOD’s heart had faith and trusted in The LORD. He wasn’t swayed left nor right by the giant but faced him in battle (1 Samuel 17:23-54). Much like David, some of us are now faced with a Goliath and the unfolding story is being captured. Many times when I heard the story of David and Goliath, I wondered how I would react when faced with such a giant. I wondered if I would be like David or Saul. Well, the story is unfolding and it is time to simply look at that which I have, to use it and trust in The LORD that I serve.



I have come across some few things to help me not only make it through this recession, but to come out on top successful and prosperous. Here’s a few I’d like to share with you;

  • Realize that you are gifted and that your gift isn’t conditional based on your circumstances.

 As human beings, we are created in the image of The MOST HIGH GOD, we have the capacity to change our situations. We have the ability to shape and change our circumstances, and not the other way around. You need only to look deep within, recognize that which you have in your hand, make up your mind to use it and go with it.

Some people have the gift to make other people laugh. You might not need a big stage (as yet) to start. Connect yourself with local churches, schools, companies for a “one man show” or partner with people who are like minded. You might be gifted as a mine worker, connect yourself with schools and share your wisdom with children about the mines. You might be gifted in administration, use your gift to assist small and upcoming business, companies, churches, schools etc.

There are so many opportunities that require your gift. Opportunities to do good and make income aren’t only available in the workplace, they are available everywhere you are willing to open your eyes and see them. They are ready and waiting for you to utilize them. Sometimes the opportunities come in as a way to help/assist others. It may seem below you or less than your previous pay check but it is something that is much better than doing nothing. In all things, seek wisdom first before you act.


  •  Step out of your comfort zone.

This I have found to be uneasy at times myself but once I have started on the journey, it became fulfilling. Stepping out of one’s comfort zone seems a bit daunting at first. Like u’Tata Nelson Mandela said “it always seems impossible, until it is done.” There is an African proverb that says “in order to eat the whole elephant. You must eat it, a piece at a time.” Sometimes we think of drastic things to do in order to get out of our comfort zones when really, it is sometimes the small steps we  take added with determination that helps us see success. For example, as a professional unemployed baker, you could enter that competition you have been wanting to enter. Bake for stokvel gatherings, school fun days, church festivals, start that baking company with your loved ones. 

If you focus your attention on how big the elephant is and when it is that you will finish eating it, you might not ever start enjoying the elephant. You might leave it and others will capitalize on it. Your achievements in life thus far might be colorful but that (in most cases when unemployed) doesn’t help when you are hungry. The contacts you have might not be useful and all the hard work you once did, might be forgotten by many. Applying online everyday might be a conventional way of looking for work but how about trying something you haven’t done before, like approaching companies/loved ones/NGO’s/NPO’s etc for work and to physically hand in your CV?


I remember when I was without work, I volunteered my administration skills at an NGO and a month later with them, they hired me as a full-time employee. Some people are doing unconventional ways in order to be hired by standing on robots (traffic lights) with a board and their CV’s in hand, ready to be employed. That might be drastic for you but for them, it is stepping out of their comfort zones in order to beat recession.



  • Tighten up your financial belt.

Not many people that I know like to hear this but it has saved many others from going further into debt. If big companies do it in order to secure a future for their companies, why not you? It is difficult to tighten up a financial belt especially when it has been loosened a few times. It makes your whole body uncomfortable at first but the body, eventually, learns to adapt. Instead of going out every weekend, buying lavish material things to impress others, taking up unnecessary loans (only you know which one’s those are) and in some instances, using your own vehicle when you can use public transport. 

Why not use that money to save or to invest in you or your loved one’s future? I remember when I had to park my vehicle at home and use public transport and limit places I used to travel to. It was such a difficult decision to make but it saved me R2,200 monthly as I used to spend R3,000 on petrol alone every month. Sure, ego takes a huge hit cause then you think about your reputation and what people might say, but the amount of money I saved, was worth more than my ego.



  •  Something old with something new?

I love learning new things, it is one of the things that excites an introvert. I plan on furthering my studies but I had to put that on hold due to the current state of the country. I also couldn’t let that stop me. So I decided to do something I had done when I was in school, I went to the local community library and got started on learning. I didn’t want to wait until the tide of the country’s financial market had turned in my favor. I instead grabbed the bull by the horn and made lemonade of the lemons life handed to me. I had a vision and was determined to see through no matter the state of the economy.

In that sense, why not try something old with something new and see what comes of it? Use conventional ways to come up with unconventional ways. Mark Zuckerberg did it by making use of the way we used to connect with others and made it conventional (Facebook). I have gone back home often times during the recession and I have found myself more inspired to do something new, to try again and time and again, to try it differently and that has helped me to keep going.


  • Get with the right people.

Often when times like these hit, we forget who we are and the good we are capable of. Even when people remind us, because we are so focused on the negatives and when everything will “go back to where it was like once”. I remember walking to my apartment and was accompanied by an old man who said to me that the “dompas” years were better than the times we are in now, as people had work. I thought to myself, never allow yourself to look back at where GOD removed you from. No matter the circumstances you find yourself in. It is easy to look at something so horrible as “good” because of where your attention is focused on and the people you surround yourself with.

Also at times you could find yourself with the upcoming movers and shakers and be intimidated by them. I once spoke to a loved one and suggested that when the tide turns around in the country’s favor, that I would invest financially in their company as I couldn’t recognize how else I would be able to assist. I was intimidated by them and the journey they were on as I couldn’t see how I could possibly assist with anything else but money. I was then reminded that I had so much more to offer than money. I have skills and gifts that they required more than money at that time. So I offered my strong administration gift and that has opened more doors for me and them that I could ever imagine.  

Often times we might not have anything to offer the upcoming movers and shakers at that time but I have realized that if you stick around them long enough. An opportunity will present itself and they will look to you to assist them. Sometimes you have to be consistent with showing up 😊



  •  Keep moving.

My brother once said to me: “often what you are going through, a lot of people have gone through it and some, could be currently going through it”. You are not alone and you are not the only person going through it. Many have gone through it and not only survived, but prospered through it. Many people and companies have succeeded during recession like Ford and Intel:


Ford (NYSE:F)
“Just years ago, Ford was in deep financial trouble, along with the entire American car industry. Plagued by recalls, safety issues and lagging sales, Ford was looking like it was on its way out - until CEO Alan Mulally took over. It took three years of losses, rigorous cuts in jobs and costs, but Ford is now posting a $2.7 billion net income for 2009, and recently announced 2010 second quarter profits for April through June of $2.6 billion.” The company expects to end 2011 with less debt than cash - quite a turnaround in just a few years. A complete overhaul, eliminating models from its line, cutting costs and revamping its image got Ford back into the game at a time when recovery is toughest. (Henry Ford: Industry Mogul And Industrial Innovator.)

Intel (NYSE:INTC)
"What goes down must come up" seems to be the secret to Intel's recent $2.89 billion profit, which came in much higher than expected. Intel sat tight during the recession while client companies held off on computer purchases for their employees, and is now seeing the upswing, with profits soaring to a 10-year high. Intel's secret to success is simple patience: by waiting for pent-up demand to return, it's back to making the big tech bucks.”
(Read more: 6 Companies Thriving In The Recession https://www.investopedia.com/financial-edge/0810/6-companies-thriving-in-the-recession.aspx#ixzz5UrDyTZkM
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The key is to keep moving, be consistent, be patient and you will come across the right opportunity. Do not ever give up no matter the circumstances. The tide will turn around again and it is better that it finds you ready, than having given up to only start again.



  •  The best is yet to come.

Look towards the future with a positive outlook and know, that “it is not over yet.”


 

Friday, 30 September 2016

STAND A CHANCE TO WIN X2 TICKETS - Symphony Wine Festival



Galencia Property Symphony Wine Festival tantalising taste buds.

The Galencia Property Symphony Wine Festival in association with Core Catering will be happening at Montecasino from 30 September to 2 October 2016,

In addition to great wine on offer from leading wine estates, guests can look forward to a fantastic range of exhibitors from the food industry and liquor industry. The festival encourages visitors to savour, linger longer, sample and shop from a wide range of produce in the relaxed atmosphere of a boutique food and drink market. Festival goers will be blown away by the superior class and sophistication presented at this year’s Symphony celebration.

With a cast of gourmand exhibitors, artisan foodie producers, superlative snifters and award-winning wineries, the show is set to delight with a kaleidoscopic array of the city’s finest food, drink and music.

Braeside Meat Market, 2 Thai 4, Hashi, Oyster and Champagne Zone, Bearded Fella, Thava and Belgian Delicacies by Philippe Frydman, The Sorting Board, Chilli Café, Real Wraps, Roco Mamas and Toro Loco will be on site to tantalise guest's taste buds.

Craft food producers are exhibiting as well and  you can expect anything from craft nut butters too artisanal ice cream on sale. A full list of exhibitors is attached to this release.

This year  in addition to the sessions played by the Johannesburg Symphony Orchestra there is an exciting line up of artists to entertain guests at the 2016 Galencia Symphony Wine Festival. The following artists have already been confirmed Natalie Poppy, Warren Carrie , Sean Hayz, Adele Ngeto , Kylie Unsworth, Cindy Alter (From Clout), Justin Serrao,  Will Rayz and Tony Bala. So the entire weekend will be filled with constant entertainment.

Early bird ticket buyers have the opportunity to enter the competition to win a weekend at the award winning Ken Forrester Winery. Go to the Symphony Festival Facebook page for more information. Tickets are available from www.itickets.co.za for R140 per ticket incl. a wine glass.

FACEBOOK : SYMPHONY WINE FESTIVAL
TWITTER @Symphonyfest #Symphonyfest

Exhibitors List 

Coffee Café
Prosecco
Begk's Smoked Food
Breva Beverages
Damas Bakery
Epa! Fresh Uncooked Sauces & Pastes
Swagga Breweries
Great Railroad Brewing Co
Neat Whiskey Bar
Qualito Craft Distillery
Roeks Beer
The Drift
Tripple Three Distillery
Welgemeend Estate
Agars Brewery
Flavourex Fine Artisan Cheese
Orange River Cellars
International Deli Distributors
Kegtails
Angel Heart Liqueurs
N2 Ice Cream Lab
Baan Bootsbar Thai Cuizine
Montpellier
Doolhof Wine Estate 
Windfall Wines
Elvira's Italian Foods
Balsimo Beads
Bearded Fella
Lanique
Soweto Gold
Caipirihna
Socks Tonic
Louisvale
Romond
Wilderer Fynbos Gin
San Pellegrino & Acqua Panna (Clearworld)
Liquor on the Run
The Curbside Café
Larhana Farm Products

2 Thai 4
Berrilicious
Biscuit Boutique
Braeside Meat Market 
Chillichef
Core Catering
Fruize
Full Volume Adventures
Galencia
Gourmet Fudge
Hashi Fusion sushi & Sushito
Jhb Culinary and Pastry School
Jozi Nut / Mack Daddy
Jti
Liquid Chefs
Liquor on the run
Real Wraps
Retro Foods and Kriek on tap
Roco Mamas
Snorting Boar
Thava
Toro Loco
Wild Bean Café (BP)
Artjamming


For PR on this, contact; 
Bridget van Oerle
BUZ  Consultants
O832636991 / 011 6730264
buz@buz.co.za


By participating in this competition, entrants agree to the rules set out below.
1. This competition is limited to residents of South Africa. .
2. The competition shall commence on the 30th of September 2016 and will end on 30th of September 2016. No entries received after 30th of September 2016 will be considered.
3. Mechanics
To participate in this competition, entrants must adhere to the following:
Re-post and share this poster on your social media pages and tag #makhumo
1 (one) winner will be drawn on the 30th of September 2016. The draw will be handled by the owner of this blog (makhumo.blogspot.com), in Johannesburg. The owner of the blog reserves the right to screen the entrants’ submissions and select a deserving winner at their discretion. The winner will be announced on the 30th of September 2016 on Facebook (@Lebohang Tumelo's account),
4. The Prize:
The winner will receive a pair of tickets to attend the Symphony wine show at Montecasino on ONLY ONE of the dates mentioned above.
5.  How to claim your prize:
The prize winner will be notified via Facebook message on the same day as the draw. Upon receipt of the message, the potential prize winner will be required to provide his / her contact number so that they can be contacted directly.
If the organisers of the competition are unable to reach the potential prize winner within 2 hours of  their name being drawn, for whatsoever reason, including incorrect telephone numbers or inoperative telephone numbers, such winner will be disqualified and a runner up finalist will be deemed the potential prize winner subject to the terms and conditions herein.
6. General
The prize is not transferable, and no substitution or cash redemption of prizes is permitted. The prize will not be handed/awarded to a third party, but only to the verified prize winner.
By entering this competition you authorise the organizer, to collect, store and use (not share) personal information of entrants for communication or statistical purposes.
This Competition is in no way organized, endorsed or administered by, or associated with, Facebook. You understand that you are providing your information to the organizer and not to Facebook. The information you provide will be used for email/sms communications for future Competitions.
The winner or participants may be required to take part in publicity campaigns for broadcast or publishing purposes. Winners or participants shall at all times be entitled to decline the above request. Winners or participants that take part in any publicity will not be entitled to any payment or other remuneration for such publicity or otherwise. All publicity and other materials will be the sole property of the organizer and promoter. 
The organisers of the competition reserve the right to cancel or postpone the competition at any time.
The organizer reserves the right to amend the terms and conditions as well as terminate the Competition at any time. In the event of such termination, all entrants agree to waive any rights that they may have in terms of the Competition and acknowledge that they have no recourse against the organizer, its advertising agencies, advisors, suppliers and nominated agents
Any questions, comments or complaints regarding the Competition can be directed to lebotumelo@yahoo.com ONLY.
Transport to Montecasino to collect and watch the show are the sole responsibility of the winner.
Should winners not be able to watch the show after/before collecting tickets for whatsoever reasons. The organizer is to be contacted 48hours before the booked date.

Monday, 19 September 2016

DETOURS...

Have you ever felt that you were on a wrong path of life while looking at the path you were supposed to be on initially? That's what happened to me while I was on my way to my great next step. I had taken a detour that would cost me more, than what I thought/hadn't thought it would.

Here's the story;



While I was down and under with no job, no income and debt all the way up to my neck, a friend told me about a job opening and, without hesitation, I confirmed the interview. At this point I had applied for work and hadn't heard anything back from any of the companies I had sent my CV's/resume to. So at the sound of the news from my friend and confirming the interview, I told God that "this was it. This was what I had been praying for" and so I started chanting joyful songs and proclaiming it as mine. Finally, a job opening - I thought to myself in excitement.

Looking back, I noticed that that was where the problem started. You see instead of asking God if that job opening was what he wanted for me, I told Him that it was, what He wanted for me. Sometimes we think we know what we want and we tell God to make it happen. I have noticed that this happens often to me when I am going through difficult times and have been waiting what seems like ages.

I remember on the day of the interview my older sister wanted to make sure I looked like I had the job already (walking in faith). I had to send pictures to her to confirm my look, head to toe. So I went to the interview and had a treat while I waited for the door to open to my next great step. A refresher from what I had been going through. My new would-be employer arrived and seemed nice, lovely and outspoken. He spoke with such joy about his company and plans to grow it and how I would fit in. Before you know it, I was hired.

I was so excited to start at this new job because not only was it bringing about with it some sort of financial relief, it was something different to what I had done before in my work career. That meant a new skill to learn, a new field to grow in and an opportunity to learn something new. While it was exciting being there, learning and growing, it got sour for me real quick.

My new employer and I were two entirely different people. From the way we spoke, the way we communicated, the system and ideas we had about work, it was all different, which if you look at it in a positive way, it seemed that we complemented each other in a Ying Yang kind of way. Our different ways of doing things complemented the way we worked and brought about good results, but it didn't end there. In being different to each other, a lot of differences came out and for me that was the beginning of a difficult situation to wake up to, every-work-day.

With me being the way I am, it was very difficult to communicate with my employer the pain he had caused me. It was difficult to approach him and try solve the situation at hand because he expressed himself loudly. So I couldn't address the situation with him and that made it very difficult for me to love my work. I began to speak negatively about my job to my family as it was really bothering me. This brought a lot of negativity in my life and sent me downhill, which didn't help with the stress I was already going through.

The good people around me kept telling me to look at the situation positively and to focus on the good that I could do. They said that God was going to use what I was going through for my good - turn things around. I heard and understood what they were saying and knew it to be true, but I was so deeply hurt, stressed, negative and furious, that I couldn't believe that God would use what I was going through and turn it around for-my-good.

I started to see everything negatively and it weighed heavy on me. My whole demeanor was negative because I was broken. Completely. I have worked with people before and they have never broken my spirit to this extend. I have always kept my head up high and hopeful, but I couldn't do that this time around. I guess what I had been going through, toppled with the new found stress, just took away all the strength I had left.

I continued on this path for a while mainly because of my finacial responsibilities. Whatever little I had all went to my financial responsibilities. My negative babbling continued for a while until a very good friend of mine, whom I consider a sister, took note of this and wasn't happy with it. She then advised me to read a book that had helped her through her storms -  "Your Best Life Now" by Joel Osteen



This book took me by surprise - I remember thinking that to myself. I related to the words so much that I felt like I was "found again" by God. I felt His love all over me again. I was no longer angry and I could be positive again. I began to let God lead me and it wasn't an easy thing to work through at first. It took a lot from me to draw back to God by not only being positive, but living and speaking positively and letting the pain go. I forgave my employer and released the hurt. I felt a sense of relief and joy when I let the pain go.

As I continued reading the book, I remember asking God permission to leave my job. I asked for it because, I didn't know what plans God had for me being there, because I remembered that His ways are greater than mine. Sometimes pain and struggles are God's ways of bringing the best out of us, and I didn't want to mess around with God's plans. So after meditating and spending time with God, I resigned, and once again. I was without a job, but this time around, God brought about an opportunity - although I must say I almost missed this opportunity because it was wrapped in wrapper not of my liking.

Thanks for the push from my loved ones (most especially Mommy dearest), I took the risk and opened the blessing and I do not regret it because I see God's glory, power and hand upon it all. It's definitely not easy. It has it's ups and downs but I feel the hand of God upon me, so much so, that I realized that what I thought was a detour and a mistake, was actually a blessing.

See God wasn't surprised that I had taken that detour. He knew I would, and at that exact moment in my life. It is now that I realize that that detour, was actually God preparing me for what was to come.

What I'm trying to say is that sometimes we think our mistakes take God by surprise and He now has to save us from the mess we created. The truth is, God knows everything before it even happens. He sees it all and knows it all, and He has a solution for all we go through. You might be at a point in your life right now where you feel you have made the worst mistake or have brought trouble onto your doorstep by not waiting a little bit longer, and found yourself taking a detour. You may feel danger all around and not see a way out.

Well friend, there is a God near you, waiting to help you and all you have to do, is draw yourself closer to Him. Sometimes I feel like I should've said something, done something to communicate how I felt to my employer. I guess I was afraid and had lost courage. I turned to The Great I Am when I had no voice, and when I was weak to my knees to stand up for myself.  He took it all and turned it around for my good. He took the fear and gave me joy. He renewed my strength by giving me hope.

I am now able to sing joyful songs to Him because of HIM. Whatever it is you are going through and no matter the darkness or negativity that surrounds you. Do not give up, keep taking it a step at a time and if it gets to heavy, and you can't carry it anymore. Take it all to Jesus in prayer.




It gets better :)